Tag: Strategies

Weighted Toys (Anxiety Strategies)

Weighted toys, such as weighted soft toys or lap pads, can help ease anxiety through something called deep pressure stimulation. This is the same principle behind weighted blankets. Deep pressure is also associated with the release of serotonin and dopamine, chemicals that support mood and wellbeing. Serotonin is a precursor to melatonin, which helps explain why weighted items can also improve sleep.

Hug-A-Lumps

When gentle, evenly distributed pressure is placed on the body, it stimulates pressure receptors in the skin. These receptors send signals to the brain that activate the parasympathetic nervous system, our “rest and digest” system. This can slow the heart rate, lower blood pressure, reduce cortisol (the stress hormone), and create a sense of calm and safety. In simple terms, the body receives the message that it is safe.

For children and adults who experience sensory processing differences or heightened anxiety, steady, predictable pressure provides important proprioceptive input, or body awareness. This grounding sensation can reduce fight or flight responses and help the nervous system settle. For this reason, weighted toys are often used in autism support, ADHD regulation, trauma-informed settings, and for generalised anxiety.

There is also a psychological component. Holding something weighted can feel containing and secure, similar to a firm hug. Physical containment often supports emotional containment. Research on weighted blankets and deep pressure therapy shows reduced physiological arousal, improved sleep, and reported reductions in anxiety. The evidence is strongest for sensory regulation, with growing support for anxiety management.

Weighted toys work especially well for children because they are portable, non-clinical, and comforting. They combine sensory regulation with emotional reassurance, which can be a powerful support for an anxious nervous system.

From a personal perspective, my son uses the medium sized Hug-A-Lumps which weigh 1.5kg, the smaller version pictured above weigh .75kg. He finds these weighted toys extremely comforting and uses them all day to help with his regulation as he has high levels of anxiety. I also use the smaller version of Hug-A-Lumps in my classroom practice with year 3 and 4 students, these are very popular and widely used by the students, especially those who are neurotypical. They promote better focus and regulation throughout the day, while looking cute and not at all out of place within a primary classroom environment.

Anxiety Strategies – Box Breathing

Box breathing is a simple breathing technique that helps calm the nervous system and reduce anxiety. By slowly inhaling, holding, exhaling, and holding again for equal counts, it activates the body’s relaxation response and helps shift us out of “fight or flight” mode.

This steady rhythm can lower heart rate, reduce muscle tension, and create a sense of control during overwhelming moments. For people experiencing anxiety, box breathing provides a practical tool to slow racing thoughts, improve focus, and bring the body and mind back to a more balanced, grounded state.

Here are the simple steps for box breathing:

  1. Inhale slowly through your nose for a count of 4.
  2. Hold your breath for a count of 4.
  3. Exhale slowly through your mouth for a count of 4.
  4. Hold again (with lungs empty) for a count of 4.

Repeat this cycle for 4–6 rounds, or longer if needed. Keep the breath slow, steady, and gentle rather than forced. If helpful, imagine tracing the four sides of a square as you breathe.

There are many videos on YouTube that you can follow to get the right rhythm. Some can guide you verbally like in my first example and others, like in my second example, you will just hear the breath sounds to guide you. Experiment until you find the right guide for you.